How to return his wife

Yesterday, your beloved woman was nearby, and today she leaves you. Why, after several years of married life, the wife decides to part? What are the reasons pushing her to this step? And how can you return your wife?

Why can a wife leave?

To understand why the wife decided to leave you, you need to find out the motives of her act and understand the current situation. Each married couple has an individual case. But still, there are several main reasons why women leave husbands.

Inattention from the husband

When, after the wedding, a married couple plunges into a routine of everyday life, many men stop paying attention to their wives. The role of a woman is reduced to cooking, cleaning, raising children. And husbands devote their free time to friends, football, fishing. Over time, the wife begins to sharply need delicate words, affection, attention. And if at this moment there is another man who is able to appreciate all this and surround the woman with concern, then it is to him that she leaves. Psychologists call several reasons why the wife feels her husband's inattention:

1. He did not tell her for a long time that he loves and appreciates.
2. The spouses always spend the free time of the spouses.
3. The husband did not give his wife flowers and gifts for a long time.
4. He doesn’t care like a wife looks.
5. He looks back at other women when his wife is nearby.
6. He is weighed down by his wife's requests for house assistance.
7. Spouses do not speak frankly about their problems.

Treason of the husband

According to statistics, treason most often causes wives. Men, starting a novel on the side and think that this is an innocent flirting. Many justify this behavior with their polygamy, considering the norm to combine marital duties with the role of a hero-lover. The main mistake of men is that they do not think about the feelings of their wives. And in vain. After all, women intuitively feel treason and categorically do not want to put up with her. And only when the wife leaves, many husbands begin to understand how much this woman was dear to him.

Different views on life

This is also a very common reason for the separation of spouses. In the bouquet-conflict period before the wedding, the couple do not think about how different their views on life are. But after a while it turns out that for someone it is more important than a quarry than a family or scandals and scandals than silence and peace in the house. Disagreements can occur for any occasion. To return the wife, you need to know what are the manifestations of different views on life:

1. Disputes and disagreement cause even trifles in everyday life.
2. Spouses cannot or do not want to meet each other.
3. The family cannot listen and hear a partner.
4. The choice is made in favor of principles, not family interests.
5. Love fans in the background before life beliefs.
6. A man does not want to take responsibility for providing a family.

Love for alcohol

The alcohol dependence of her husband almost always makes wives leave the family. Next to such men, women do not feel safe. At first, women are trying to help their beloved get rid of a pernicious habit. But if this does not bring a result, the wives leave themselves and lead the children. Among the reasons that make you leave, women call the following:

1. No ways help her husband get rid of alcohol dependence.
2. Uncertainty in tomorrow.
3. The husband spends a salary on alcohol and drunken companies.
4. In a drunken frenzy, the husband is scandalous and beats his wife.
5. The husband’s reluctance to change the situation.
6. The husband does not care about the family and does not bear responsibility for her.

Lack of children

The mission of a woman is to be a mother and keeper of the hearth. If the family does not have a child, many wives begin to feel their inferiority. In any way, they strive to realize their maternal instincts. And if the husband does not share their aspirations, then the wife will look for the one for whom children is also the joy and meaning of life. Of course, there are exceptions when both spouses do not want to have children and find other opportunities to realize themselves. But in most cases, a woman will always strive to continue the family.  Signs that the wife will leave her husband if the couple has no children:

1. The wife constantly tells her husband that he wants a child.
2. The husband does not think about the continuation of the genus. He does not take seriously the desire of his wife to become a mother.
3. The husband refuses to be treated if the birth of the child depends on this.
4. For years, the husband promises his wife to solve household and financial problems, and only then offers to think about children.

Jealousy

Even if a man loves his wife very much, she can leave him. This happens when the husband is constantly and unreasonably jealous of his second half. At first, jealousy can be liked by a woman - this is an indicator that a man is not indifferent. But then reproaches and distrust are able to destroy even love. It is very difficult to live with jealous people who cannot control emotions.  The reasons why the wife leaves the jealous husband:

1. He seeks to control every step of the wife.
2. The husband does not trust his wife and does not believe her words.
3. The husband cannot curb his jealousy.
4. Constant groundless accusations of her husband against his wife.
5. The feelings and experiences of the wife are not important for her husband.

Sexual incompatibility

Between husband and wife, there may be a complete understanding in life views, but if an intimate life failed, and the man stopped arranging his wife in sex, then she can find a new love in the arms of another. They prefer to keep silent about this reason. Some endure all their lives, others decide for divorce. Women are very sensitive and emotional, so they are difficult to cool the cooling of feelings in an intimate life. They may not talk about this to their spouse, but when they are not able to pretend through a while they simply leave the indifferent man.

How to return the love and trust of the wife? The tips of the psychologist

You can revive the faded love and return the trust of your wife. But for this man will need not only desire, but also a lot of effort. You need to understand that a woman, whose heart no longer loves, is open to a new relationship. Another man can give them, but the former husband can revive them. The tips of a psychologist to those who want to return the trust and love of the wife:

• After the wife’s departure, do not rush immediately at her feet. You both need time to recover and understand the situation. During this period, communication should be very delicate and unobtrusive.
• We need to recall the moment when the couple first met and began to meet. It is then that the woman feels that a man is especially interesting and needed. Every day he is waiting for a meeting with her, afraid to lose and does everything to attract attention. After parting, you will have to start all over again and make the ex -wife can again feel your love for her.
• Do not pursue the ex -wife, constantly sober her on the phone and whine into the phone about how bad you are without her. It is enough to say a random compliment when meeting, wish a good day or offer help.
• Invite your ex -wife on a date, take a walk in the park, go to the cinema or theater, go on a weekend trip. At the same time, immediately stipulate that communication with her is important to you. Do not be offended if your beloved refuses. After a while, try again or find out how she would like to spend time with you.
• If your wife was bored with you, then it's time to change. Risk and show her that you are a brave and confident man. For your beloved, jump with a parachute, or saddle a horse, participate in car racing or other extreme sports. It is very important that your ex -wife at that moment is nearby and see what you are capable of for her.

• If your wife constantly accused you of not helping her house, then it was time to postpone laziness and finally take up real male work. For example, offer to make repairs in the apartment and do not just say, but proceed to the implementation of the idea. Help her solve everyday problems and take care of the comfort of a loved one.
• Have you noticed your wife for a long time and therefore she left? Now you need to learn to see even the little things related to your beloved. For example, she made a new hairstyle, which to her face or put on a dress that emphasizes a beautiful figure. After all, all women do this for men.
• Interested in what she thinks and feels. Ask her opinion. Listen to the words. Even if this seems to you not serious activity, you need to understand that it is important for emotional women to know that they are heard and consulted with them. This will help to return the trust of the wife.
• Do not remember past grievances. Forget them and start the history of your relationship from the clean sheet.

How to return his wife after a divorce by changing himself? 

If your beloved woman left due to the fact that you cheated on her, jealous or depended on alcohol, then the reason for the divorce lies exclusively in you. In these cases, you will have to work on yourself and change, otherwise you will never return your beloved woman. To return his wife after a divorce, psychologists advise the following:

• Set the main reason for the care of your wife. Talk to her and find out what her main complaints were to you before the divorce. After listening to everything about yourself, do not argue and do not try to find explanations for your actions. You are a man and must be able to cope with difficulties.
• If the reason for the care of the wife is your betrayal, then you need to determine for yourself for sure whether you can abandon flirting on the side for your beloved. You must understand that there will be no second chance. If you are not able to cope with the constant desire of love adventures, seek help from a psychologist. Try to add to the relationship with your ex -wife exactly the moment of adventurism, which attracts you on the side.

• Some psychologists say that jealousy is a disease. And no matter how hard it would be for you if you want to return your wife, you will have to fight jealousy. In almost all cases, men cannot cope with this feeling independently - a psychologist is necessary. Feel free to go to specialists for help, because the return of your wife should be most important for you. You need to learn to trust your loved one again, otherwise you will not succeed. Keep yourself in your hands and work on the ability to control emotions and your imagination.
• To return the wife, who has gone because of your love of alcohol, you will also have to turn to specialists. A serious addiction cannot be dealt with without them. If you have not yet become a slave in alcohol, then you can break your worldview and way of life yourself. Sign up for a gym or find some hobby for yourself. You need new emotions that will fill the void. If old friends pull you into the past, then look for others - active, interesting, optimistic people. After time, you will notice that you no longer need to look for comfort in a glass, because life has become brighter and more exciting.

So that your ex -wife knows that you are working on yourself for her, tell her about your successes. Invite your loved one to support you in this difficult matter. So, having gone together by overcoming, you will have a chance to revive past feelings. You should know that only success in working on yourself will help you return your wife.

How to return his wife by changing relationships in sex?

If you and your wife lived a soul in the soul and the only reason for parting became problems in an intimate life, then the situation is fixed. Of course, it is better if you had noticed before that your wife has cooled down to you and managed to take measures while. This suggests that spouses should always pay attention to each other, to be interested in how comfortable partner is with you.   Those who do not want to give up and are ready to fight for the love of a wife in an intimate life will help the tips of a sexologist:

• You can not treat sex as a technical task. This is a creative process that constantly requires update. Read more and find out new for yourself about sex. Do not be afraid to experiment, listening to the desires of a woman.
• Even if you are very tired or you have a lot of problems and worries, you need to be able to relax and find time for intimacy with your wife. Learn to postpone everything for at least an hour and devote this time to your beloved woman. She should always know that she is desirable.
• Remember your wife not only in the sleeping. During the day, you can send an SMS with delicate words or send a bouquet of flowers for no reason. The woman will look forward to your return home.
• Learn to talk about sex frankly. If you have not done this before, then it may be difficult right away, but then you can solve a lot of problems.
• You need to understand that a woman who is spinning like a squirrel in a wheel all day, is unlikely to find strength for intimacy in the evening. Take care to facilitate the life of the spouse. Take part of the worries on your shoulders or create comfort in the house. A woman must feel care of herself and then she will be grateful to you.

• Do not forget that women are much more emotional than men and sometimes it’s just difficult for them to disconnect from the day. Prepare for your favorite bath with essential oils, put candles in the bedroom, turn on pleasant music. You can change the situation and leave for the weekend out of town. All this will help you both forget the routine and plunge into new impressions.
• Study and open your ex -wife again. In most cases, men, having lived with his wife for several years, do not know that she likes the most in bed, which erogenous areas are more sensitive. Correct your mistakes and learn to feel a woman in bed, and not just chase your own satisfaction.

How to return a wife with a child?

The care of a wife with a child is a double loss for a man. If the husband was a good father, then returning the location of his child will not be so difficult. If the man was not engaged in a child, then to return their relatives will have to make twice as much effort:

• First of all, try to explain the situation to the child. Do not go into details, do not blame your mother, do not complain about living. The best will be the following explanation: “You understand, sometimes adults need time to understand themselves. My mother and I are now in such a situation, but still love you very much. And we will try to do everything so that you are happy. ” Do not promise the golden mountains to your child, but make it clear that you are always nearby and together with your mother continue to take care of him.
• Find the time to communicate with the child. Coming home for this, do not waste time to clarify the relationship with your wife. It is better to do this so that the child does not hear you. He must see your polite attitude to his mother and understand that you are still responsible for the family.
• Help your wife as much as possible in raising a child. Go to meetings to school, buy clothes together, take care of health. The wife must see - despite the breakup, you continue to be a reliable and strong father and husband.
• Speak with your wife calmly, trying to find out the reason for leaving. Be honest with each other. Do not blame her, but just take into account the reproach and try to correct your mistakes. A woman must see that you are ready to work on yourself in order to return it.
• Continue to be interested in the life of the ex -wife. Show her interest in compliments and inviting dates. Make it so that she remembers what qualities you fell in love with.
• Be patient. You may need a lot of time to return your family. Wife and child should always feel your support and attention, realizing that you are the best father and husband.

How to return his wife to a family according to Orthodox laws?

In Orthodoxy, the family split is not approved. Especially if the couple was married. It is believed that both the husband and wife must do everything to preserve the union they entered into. Priests advise contacting the Bible when disagreements and disputes arise. If the husband and wife still did not have the wisdom to stay together, then any restoration of their relationship is welcomed by the church. God is always on the side of the family. If your wife has left you and you think how to return it, then you need to do this:

1. A husband who wants to return his wife to a family must first go to church and repent of his sins.
2. A conversation with a priest will help to calm down and understand the situation. Such communication also gives strength to go the path of returning the wife.
3. In Orthodoxy, there are prayers to return his wife to the family, preserving the family. Read them with sincerity and faith in the heart.
4. Read the Bible, because in it everyone finds answers for their situation.
5. Wish the wife who has left, only good and health.
6. Look for forces in Orthodoxy to forgive and forget the insults, as well as open a heart for the revival of love. Only then can you return your wife.

How to return a wife with magic?

Trying to return his wife, men are ready for a lot. Some turn to ancient magical grandfathers. Indeed, in Rus', too, wives left husbands. How effective such methods are is difficult to say. But there are always those who decide to try and such methods of returning the spouse. Here is one of them:

At midnight you need to sit in front of the mirror, take three church candles, a key with a castle and a photo of a wife. A photo should be put in front of you, and you should arrange burning candles behind it. There should be a castle in the left hand, and the key in the right. After the preparations, you need to insert the key into the lock with the words: “How this key in the castle will turn, so my beloved will return home. How this castle cannot be opened, so our love cannot be ruined. Amen!".   The next morning, the lock with the key needs to be hidden.

Perhaps with the help of magic, you will return your wife, but you should know that she will not come of her own free will. So, it is not known how long your relationship will last. Still, it is better when a woman returns to her husband, sincerely realizing that she herself wants it.

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