What is human sociability. How to develop the sociability of an adult and child

Reinforcement knowledge comes v practice. Get it her on streets cities, at change setting, but no way not houses v four walls. Notenough read article and straightaway the same pump level, how v computer roleva toy. WITH theory process it will go faster, but practice moving hand about hand. Being says — exciting conversations it turns out with those, u whom fascinating life, who breathing complete breasts, v measure hardly, not complex, free speaks o all kinds of.

Meaning words society

Society —  this ease establishing relationship between people, extraversion to social contacts. WITH help given qualities can fast find the shortest ways v business relationship, disperse enmity, attract attention worthy people, reduce path to goals. Shyness and closure are complete opposite openness character.

Development sociability

Job over yourself beloved (beloved) — work long, but expectations justifies. Closed man difficult enjoy communication houses, on work, bind acquaintances and friends. They rarely, or even never not are located v circle society. Communicable human works from souls, he not experiences soul stress talking, consulting or giving adviсe. To him nothing not costs ask about service, during show initiative, set to yourself employer, seller v supermarket, and, finally, to love on street u passerby which hour.

How develop society

• Search means communication, not avoid contact eye, standard courtesy.
• Not written from conversation, even mentally, search approach, not let down hands.
• Initiation dialogue — speak cO bored friend, to love, how affairs.
• Deliverance from formal, dry phrases type «certainly, i with you agree«, «what new?», «how affairs?» — «fine«.
• Optimism find and save the same difficult. AND how would not i wanted to climb under warm blanket, twist kalachik, defending himself from problems urgent, this contraindicated. Practically all tasks resolved and optimism, confidence v own forces give opportunity not drown v despondency.
• Refusal from alcohol — loyal way make friends with yourself. Alcohol blocks cheerfulness, flooding grief neither to what not curses except head pain, loosening nervous systems and addiction drown trouble.
• Security regularity sleep — restores strength and intelligence after tense day.
• Smile — to arose sincere smile, a not tense grin, forced similarity, need to filter from friends, acquaintances energy vampires, unpleasant rude pessimists, zlyuk and ill -wishers, forever drinking mood.
• Not bury dreams, giving hope — nobody not v course, how it will turn out tomorrow life. Here today manager average link sitting v boring office and thinking o volume, how would again to break out and work by specialties. A tomorrow to him on mail already comes the long -awaited answer by coordination his resume!
• Filter world news — white light full negative, and nothing absorb his v myself through newspapers, news internet, so way, overloaded furious the psyche.
• Value personal opinions — if myself not you love, that others will difficult.

Behavioral test on society

Given test v form tables shows 3 type directions personality on surrounding wednesday. Results level sociability assess on one's own by quantity coincidences v columns.

Ideal qualities sociable man

• Skill speak during.
• Charm on all cases.
• Disruption gaze.
• Knowledge v psychology.
• Excellent mental activity.
• Creation everywhere.
• General language even with foreigners.
• Favor to needy.

Communicativeness and society

Two similar concepts, their often confused. Communicativeness — this opportunity use sets languages, skill beautiful and it's clear write, speak out, listen, incline interlocutor v my side. Society — ease establishing contacts v society.

Society child

Detachment child from mira, closure expressed at such circumstances:

• hyperopeca relatives, excessive expression help parents;
• moving with places on place, multiple loss friends, unwillingness contact and again lose;
• modeling behavior adult, repetition for parents (i such, how they, that's why what i their son, daughter);
• banses parents by attitude child.

Parents obligated help detha find freedom actions, teach be friends cO peers, develop feeling humor, kindness to animals. Based on with concepts copying the younger from senior, it turns out, parent must begin work over yourself, before how want chad another fate.

Games for development of sociability in a child

• Baby with diaper acquire several plush friends, with them eat, sitting on pot.
• Or to train group neighboring children correct acquaintance. For example, game «Let's get acquainted«. Children plant v circle and they ask speak briefly o yourself by queues. AND every remembers names previous guys, small background. TO example, Vasya: «I Vasya and dad to me bought red car.» Ira: «The boy Vasya dad bought red car. I Ira and mother teaches me paint.» Game funny, develops memory, helps communicate and be friends.
• Game «Passed fast — accepted fast» — children sit down v circle, one child it becomes potov. He it turns out v center, reproduces subsequence gestures and shows emotion. For example, nods head, claps by stomach and winks. Next waiting looking, to whom pass fast and sits on free place. So children are located v close contact and merring.
• Game «Spoiled telephone» — children sit down v circle and in a whisper transmitted friend friend short random information. For example, «flies flock pigeons«. Passes 1 circle and every by queues, starting with end, repeats, what he i heard.
• Baby with young age healthy drive on children's site, show active children.
• Children's kindergartens help develop logic, share toys, wait, listen, help.

Increase self -assessment for the development of sociability

• Society man impossible without feelings own advantages.
• Begin with small — take a look v mirror and to love reflection, what would it neither was. Work over his own body and thoughts, search ways changes.
• Realize, what concepts «normality» not exists v principle. Every unique and this necessary recognize.
• Reduce promotion by trope loneliness. Go on risk, bring others benefit, but not forget o yourself.
• Less analyze «I«, forget about poisoning self -flagellation.
• Decide tasks, not shift solution on mom, dad. Accept deliberate independent solutions.
• Positive mood reduces chances on disease.
• Read instructive books predecessors.
• To accustom greet with former fellow students, employers, sellers, neighbors and school teachers.
• Notice v people not only negative, but and beautiful.
• Not afraid use web camera instead of chat.
• Not swallow jokes, do mood company more fun.
• Forgive yourself last negative experience.

In the resume society

• What not write, what important indicate:
  Hares words: society, stress resistance, accuracy, learning, responsibility. Substitutes by order: eloquence, equilibrium, mandatory, improvement, independence. Not write o sam yourself understanding (possession stapler, skill open plastic windows), not indicate o irresistibility appearance, not copy resume from internet. List useful characteristics not more 5 things.
• ABOUT how not they say: not crossing on «you«, they are listening comments, not dreaming, not retell verbatim resume, o request tell, o yourself invest v some paragraphs.

How increase society

Below given useful adviсe, with which will easier navigate among stream society, individuals groups or small groups.

• Active hearing.
  Term implies visual contact eye, turn corps v side narrator, nodding, politability, restraint.
• Not end alien thoughts.
  Instead of togo to finish thought another, parallel making to him trouble, need to try understand and introduce, how the same it will turn out rough.
• Not interrupt speech.
  Many interlocutors love feel freedom self -expression, interrupting alien stories. But should remember, speech some day ends and then can find suitable moment and finally turn on my phrase. If someone interrups someone, this means minimum interest to personality speaker, unwillingness support talk.
• Gratitude for story.
  Interlocutor necessary hear ears and see eyes — this optimal view awards for the narrative.
• Control language bodies.
  Luck always goes towards to meet open man, knowing o bodily gestures. Language bodies must be natural, but controlled. For example, hands, crossed on breasts, mean defense, closure; covering mouth hand, rubbing nose, centuries — mistrust; truck room ear — wish specify. Disposal gestures: restrained style, grace and softness body movements, demonstration open palms, kindness v eyes, sincerity.
• Words-parasites.
  Examples all the time and near: «crap«, «briefly speaking«, «how would«, «uh«, «so say«, «v general«, other. Repeatedly used, not carry semantic loads, supposedly savenging words, but reduced  Conversation  to minimum, multiplying boredom, annoying. Avoid, controlling speech, track thought bye filtration not will enter v habit.
• Interesting stories.
  Remaining alone instead of thoughtful silence can make furore funny or instructive history from his own life.
• Distribution on telephone.
  Unpleasant see acquaintance  enthusiastic  buried v mine hot darling smartphone bye someone trying convey information.
• Definition thoughts.
  Superfluous water only diligns speech, not saturating. People i like it facts, a not sensations, simplicity and brevity, a not tedious ranting.
• Empathy.
  Costs although would mentally try change places and introduce, for example, how difficult get lost v unfamiliar forest, forced to spend the night there and return home alive. Not all stories such stunning, but should try.

Develop society, what means?

Open quality, how minimum, means overcome new step on route success, which would those this not tangled. Hard adapt v society? Moral discomfort among people? Uncertainty on public? Failure resume? All these goals achieved work over mind and, certainly the same, body. Without strong and fit bodies soul will remain soft and dryaby.

How earlier careful parents start study with child, those faster u him it will turn out enter v masses, those easier to him will live. Society relieves from stiffness. In adult age more difficult add to to your own character new. Here it will help motivation v form readings thematic information, execution different kind instructions. Start with small — appeal to shoe by name, filming connection with young moms from kindergarten, increase duration conversation, manifestation interest ko everything living and visit sports sections, silent hall, fitness club, section crossfit.